365 Days of Happiness - Day 119

April 29

I worked my first night shift at work. It went well.  I sold a membership, which is exactly what I needed to do.  I also learned how the closing duties are handled.  It was a pretty calm night.

Among the normal things, I helped a little girl find a toy and she was very excited about it.

Though, I know this was not where I thought I would be.  Things are going well.  I'm getting a paycheck again.  I am feeling confident about my ability to sustain my puppy and my own life.  Now the question is for how much longer shall we be apart.  My hope is no later than June 1.

Here's hoping the shooting star I saw tonight means good things are ahead.

Well, I have an early day tomorrow.  Night world!  May joy be with you all!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 118

April 28

There is a lot of hate, unhappiness, and unrest in the news these days.  There are riots.  There are abductions of kids.  There are murders.  What we need is more love and kindness to each other.  There needs to be more respect for others and what they go through.  We are all in this together.

Again this is the reason behind this blog.  This is my attempt to help out and give something back to a world hurting.  I just wish there was more I could do.

So, my happiness today is just being able to do something nice for someone else.  I made a cake for my boyfriend's family.  Since they've been so amazing about me staying with them, I just want them to know how grateful I am.

I hope you have put some happiness into the world today.  Just be kind to those around you.

Much love,
~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 116

April 26

My happiness today is getting to help my boyfriend prepare for his interview tomorrow.  Fingers crossed that he gets the job.  If he does, then the next step is apartment hunting.  Luckily, we have an apartment picked out that we love.  Here's hoping we can sign a lease soon!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 115

April 25

My eight hour shift went fast.  I was surprised, but I had a lot of fun.  They had me doing everything in the music / movie department.  I was answering phones, helping people, making announcements, along with a lot of other duties.  It was great.

My happiness was finally getting to help people and succeed in locating things.  One guy was looking for a Broadway production of "Gypsy". We had one copy and I found it for him.  He was so appreciative of my work.  Also, the encouragement from my coworkers that I was doing everything right.  That just makes me feel so much better about it.  I know I can do this!

Again a big thank you out there to everyone who has been backing me and my decisions in life.  You are the best and I'm thankful to have you in my life!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 114

April 24

Today I have a day off and I enjoyed it.  I do have a job today and that is to help my guy work on his interview for Monday.  I'm so excited and proud of him!  I know he'll nail this and I'll help all I can.

Tomorrow is a full day for me though.  I have an eight hour day and I'm excited and nervous.  Wish me luck.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 113

April 23

Hi all!  Sorry I've been away for a few days.  Been a bit busy.  Let me tell you about it.

Over the weekend, I spent a couple of days back in Iowa.  I had to take care of a few things.  I also got to spend some time with my mom, sister, and my adorable puppy.  Leaving on Tuesday was difficult.  It's tough having your life split between two places.  Hopefully, that won't be for to much longer.

I've been back at work with now a week under my belt.  Things are slowly getting easier and I'm getting more comfortable.  I really think this job is going to be a lot fun.  My paycheck might not agree, but so much amazing stuff to buy.  Once a month, I'll use my allotted cash to treat myself. Haha!!!

So, good things are ahead!  I am so excited and happy for the future!

I'll be better about keeping you updated on my own personal happiness!  I hope you're having your own!

Much love!
~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 109

April 19

Today has been bittersweet.  My other half is in another state and I miss him, but I had a few things to do at home.  I ran back for a couple of days to get them taken care of.  I luckily got to spend some much needed time with my mom, sister, and of course my puppy.

Tomorrow I take care of the rest of my errands and then I have to head back up; back to work and back to my guy.

The joys of being an adult!  Haha!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 108

April 18

I left my other half in another state, but I have a few responsibilities to take care of this weekend.

Not much else to say on the matter.

Tomorrow, I'll talk to you more!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 107

April 17

Second real day on the job.  Things are going really well.  The people are amazing.  It has been a little overwhelming with all of the information, though.  I know I'll get it soon.  It'll just take a little time.  Next week will have more training, but I have some other adult responsibilites to take care of this weekend.

Things are going well and I'm really glad!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 106

April 16

Today was a day to relax and recoup after my first day.  So, my guy and I hung out and watched TV.  I put in another application for an internship writing for a nonprofit organization.  I think that would be a fun thing to do.  It has a component to really raise awareness and to help people in need.  The position only goes from May 1 to September 1.  It'll be varied, so I kind of hope things work out.  Fingers crossed!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 105

April 15

I saw a sign.  Or at least I'm taking it as a sign of good things to come.

Today I had my second day at work and I think things are finally working out.  As we (my guy and I) were heading home, I saw a shooting star and I made a wish.  I'm going to take this as a sign that I'm on the path that's meant for me.  Hopefully, it's also encouragement from dad to let me know he's watching out for me, even though he is so far away.

Happy days are ahead!!  Fingers crossed!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 104

April 14

After about two months of being unemployed, I have gained some weight.  I should have kept myself more active during that time, but easier said than done with all the stress and uncertainty I was putting myself through.

Well, spring has arrived and I am again employed.  I'm going to be on my feet a lot, so I need to start getting myself back in gear.  I'm going to start getting myself out and about and getting comfortable moving a lot.

I can do this.  I can get myself back.  I am so excited for the possibilities ahead.

I cannot say thank you enough to everyone who continues daily to put up with me, encourage me, loves me, and who continue to be there for me.  I love you all!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 103

April 13

Today was my first day training at my new job.  I'm working in a bookstore!!  Yay!  I love books and I'm really excited about this opportunity.  Though, there is a lot of reading involved in the orientation.  I guess that's a given.  Haha!

But, let me tell you about my day.  My guy and I went to look at a couple of apartments.  We liked the one we actually got to see.  The outside of the second looks great and I'm excited to see inside.

After that, we went to the mall and I went to work, he went to a movie.  There was three of us there for training and the other girls were really nice.  I also got to meet some nice people who already work there.  We filled out paperwork, got into the computer system, got a name tag, and an employee handbook.  Yay!

I have more training over the next couple of weeks.  This week I go back Wednesday and Friday.  Friday we evaluate how training is going and see how much more I need next week before I get on schedule.  But, I'm being paid again.

I also dropped off applications at a couple more places since this is a part time gig for now.  Super excited and working at the Mall of America is going to be crazy and exciting.

Things are looking up, so not as bleak as Saturday!

Sending love to you and hope you're doing wonderful.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 101

April 11

Have you ever had a day where you just felt completely useless?  That's how I've felt today.  I went to bed like that, woke up feeling like that, and now I'm laying in bed still feeling worthless.

I realized today I've been a horrible daughter and I just can't do enough for her.  I'm a horrible sister because I don't talk to my sister everyday.  I'm a horrible girlfriend because I make my boyfriend pick between me and his friends or the things he love to do.

I'm just feeling bad today and my outlook is just bleak.  I really hope that everyone in my life knows how much I appreciate them.  I'm just ready to have my life again.

I'm sorry for the dreariness.  I just had to let that go, so tomorrow I can do better.

Happiness though because I need it.  The sun was out today and I went and sat and tried to enjoy it.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 100

April 10

I made dinner tonight for the amazing family who have adopted me over the last month or so.  I don't know what I would have done without them.  They are absolutely amazing.

Tonight's menu consisted of :

Breakfast burritos
Apple fritter
Fruit
Mimos / Poinsettias

It was a much needed break after today.  I need to remember to take a breath and just realize that I am where I need to be for now.

My boyfriend's mom also surprised me with a new lunch box for when I go back to work.  I will be able to take food with me instead of spending my checks on fast food.  It was so sweet and made me feel good.

Well, I hope some one makes you dinner to show their appreciation of you!  I would if I was there.  😊

~Norma Jean 💜

365 Days of Happiness - Day 99

April 9

As the season of weddings continues to creep upon us.  I am trying to price for all the gifts and extra costs.  Well, it adds up.  Not only for guests attending weddings, but for those getting married.

So as I was looking at registries, I took a second and sent an old coworker from college something small for their wedding.  I creeped on their registry through Facebook and found something pretty cheap and I went ahead and sent it out.

I hope they are happy in the life they are creating.  They are amazing people and I like the feeling of helping them out.

Hope you are all enjoying your life out there!

~Norma Jean 💜

365 Days of Happiness - Day 98

April 8

I AM EMPLOYED!!!

I got the official call today.  My background check went through and I'll be doing orientation on Monday.  Then I'll get a schedule and be on my way to doing something fun and getting paid for it!  I am beyond excited right now!  Things really are looking up.  Now I begin the hunt for the apartment of our dreams!

Thanks for all of the support and encouragement.  You are all amazing!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 97

April 7

*Happy Dance*

I got a call today from the guy I interview with yesterday and he said he talked to the store manager and she didn't need me to come in.  Next step background check and references and then I'll get a call with my start date.  Things are finally looking up and I'm excited.  I'm so ready to be back working.  It'll be a part time gig, but that's okay.  I applied to other places for a second part time job.  So, it'll be okay.

Now for a more extensive apartment search so hopefully I won't be having to drive two hours each day I work.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 96

April 6

Today's itinerary:
1)   Look at Apartment
2)   Job interview at Barnes and Noble
3)   Dinner out with my guy


So how did everything measure up for this exciting day?

Well, first off the apartment was a bust.  Broken windows, price changed three times since we were there, and disgruntle tenants.  Yeah, I can pass on that one.

Now onto the job interview.  The interview went really well.  At the end, the guy I interviewed with said he would talk to the store manager tomorrow and give me a call on the next interview.  Yay!  One step closer.

So, feeling better about things, the boy and I went out to dinner and had sushi.  Tomorrow the game plan is to apply to a few more places and look at apartments.

So overall a pretty good day!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 95

April 5

Happy Easter!

Today was a relaxing day.  Now I can focus on tomorrow's interview and what will happen.  We are going to look at an apartment first and then I'll have my interview and then a dinner out.  So time to research and prepare.

I'll let you know how tomorrow goes!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 94

April 4

The final four play today and that means the Clune family will gather and celebrate with food and basketball.  This is my introduction into the family.  How will this go?

The day started out fun and entertaining as everyone gathered in the kitchen to put final touches on their treats for the festivities.  Then it began to turn with nerves getting to me. The kids took one car, the adults in the other and we headed to the gathering.  Getting there, I walked into a house full of people and let the panic begin.  How will I remember all the names?  How am I going to make it through?  And being alone knowing no one was difficult.  Those I knew scattered to hug and say hi to everyone, unload vehicles, and roaming around.

As the night progressed it got easier and they were all very nice to me.  They made me feel very welcomed into the family!

So though my nerves were on high alert, things turned out pretty well!  Now I can begin to worry about my interview on Monday!  Haha!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 93

April 3

Tomorrow I will be meeting my boyfriend's family.  Stress is beginning.  Today we are set to do some pre-production of the food we'll be taking over.  Hopefully, everything will turn out wonderful and that they'll like me and the food.

We're set to take over "Hot Browns" which comes from Louisville.  This was the first time I've even heard of them.  They were pretty good though.  Toast, turkey, a sauce, bacon, tomato, and parsley.

I'll let you know how tomorrow goes!

Wish me luck!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 92

April 2

I can't believe it is April already!  I hope this month is a great one with amazing adventures ahead!

I got a package in the mail today from my mom!  She is the absolute best.  No matter where I am in life, she always makes sure to send me a care package for Easter.  I love it so much and ready for a sugar high.

I love my mom and I miss her so much!

Thank you, mom!!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 91

April 1

Happy Fool's Day!

I didn't get any pranks pulled on my!  Yay!  *happy dance*

I hope all of you were as lucky as I was.  :)

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 90

March 31

Each day I continue to work on applying for jobs and searching for apartments.  Today though had a very emotional interlude.  I keep wondering what is wrong with my applications and myself for that matter that has prevented my getting one.

Well, today I got a call about a part time position I applied for today none the less.  When I talked with the hiring person, he wasn't necessarily sure I will be a good fit for the position, but he is willing to give me an interview next week.  So, here's to a least maybe getting a job of some kind and who knows maybe it'll lead to something I never thought of before.

Fingers crossed!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 89

March 30

I went to see Cinderella today and again I fell in love with fairy tales.  I fell in love with the joy they bring, to the magic behind them, to the faith that one day I'll get my happy ending too.  Someday that I'll find true love and a magical happy ending.  I'm 26 years old and I wish for fairy godmothers and adventures.

I look at my life and I just want to be able to spend a few hours at least escaping into a new and exciting world where I can pretend to be someone else for a change.  I want a chance to enjoy myself and dance my night away with my own prince charming.  I want to look at the world through another perspective.

I just want to find something that will bring joy.  I want to do something that will make a difference.  Maybe I just need to "have courage and to be kind."

Here's hoping!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 88

March 29

Spending almost a month with my boyfriend's family, I have grown to enjoy having them around.  This next weekend the final four will play in the March Madness tournament, so I'm going to be spending time with even more members of the family.  I'm excited and nervous about it.  This will be my introduction as the girlfriend into the extended family.  So today, my boyfriend and I did a test run on the treat we're going to be taking to the event.  It was fun and delicious and I'm excited to see how they enjoy it.  I'll let you know how things go next weekend!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 87

March 28

As a day of relaxation and recovery from the day before, I curled up on the couch with a cuddly puppy and read.  It made me happy!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 86

March 27

First off, let me thank everyone who gave me reassurance and critiques on my resume and everything yesterday.  I appreciate it greatly.

Now let me talk about today and the fun that was had.  I was able to spend the day shopping for gifts, baking, and going out with my boyfriend's family to celebrate his dad's birthday.  Throughout the day there were mixed feelings of excitement and happiness, as well as moments of sadness though.

It has been four and a half years since I've lost my dad and I still miss him and all the things that we are missing out on.  So, as I looked at gifts for my boyfriend's dad, I thought of my own and what I would have been getting him for his birthday.  As my boyfriend and I baked his cake, I thought of the cakes I made my dad.

It was a day of comparison, and a bit of contrast.  My dad would have rather spent his day at home, watching movies, my boyfriend's family went out for bingo and drinks.  It was fun to do something different and also to celebrate someone's dad.

I'm glad they let me tag along and celebrate.

I'll always think about the moments that we're missing together, I will be thankful for the time we did have and the moments I can look back on.  I love you dad and I'll miss you always!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 85 Resume Review

March 26

Because my support system has been amazing, I'm extending my hand out for all the help I can get.

I have attached copies of my resume and the general format for my reference sheet when asked.  Please if you have a minute, take a look and let me know if there is anything you suggest.

Also, linkedin.com/in/normajeandunning

Thank you so much!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 84

March 25

Each day I get a little more discouraged.  I know I don't look the best on paper and tomorrow I am going to see about working on my resume again.  I'm just hoping things will get better.  I'm ready to get back on my own feet again.

Even though I'm not doing the best, I do have an amazing support system backing me and I am so thankful for that.  I am beyond blessed for them and I am happy for those who are doing amazing things and working hard.  Thank you all!!

If you have any advice, please don't hesitate to send it my way!  :)

~Norma Dunning

365 Days of Happiness - Day 83

March 24

Hey all.  Sorry for being neglectful for a full week.  I was trying to go back and think of what moments happened over the week and I got confused.  My days are starting to blur together.  I'm ready to get back into a better routine than the one I have right now.  So, I'm back to focusing my efforts on something.  Hopefully, this will help keep my mind off the fact that I have yet to hear back from any of the places I have applied.  That in itself isn't necessarily a bad thing.  At least I haven't been actually rejected to my face.  I'd like to know if I have, though.

Oh well, come what may.

So, today I drove my boyfriend insane.  I turned off the TV and turned on iTunes.  My amazing array of music set on shuffle, while I did dishes and worked on a few projects (mostly applying to jobs and researching apartments).  I needed a day like this.  Just singing and dancing and do a few things on my own.  It made me feel better.  I really don't have a favorite set at the moment, or I would share.

Music has always been a part of my life since I was little until now and I'm sure it will always be.  It'll be my connection with my dad as he was the one who started this in me and I'll continue it for him.


~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 76

March 17

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

I had my phone interview today.  I think it went well.  I'm never really confident after these though.  You can't see body language or make eye contact when it's on the phone.  But I'm just hoping I said all the right things.  I had enthusiasm for the job, that much I know.  I was given advice to freshen up on the message statement of the company and I think that really helped me.

I have to wait until next week to find out whether I got it or not, so fingers crossed!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 75

March 16

I got an email today about setting up a phone interview for a company.  I'm excited and nervous.  I have been waiting for this for a few weeks now.  It's not necessarily where I thought I was going to be, but you know I'll take it.  I'll get more experience in the professional world and I can use my down time to work on my writing.  So, I think it'll be a great opportunity.  I'll let you know how it goes tomorrow after it's over.

Wish me luck!

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 74

March 15

I spent my Sunday curled up with a good book.  It has been a long while and I can honestly say I was more relaxed having a book in my lap than I've been in a while.  Not having a job is starting to make me more and more nervous, so anything to relax a bit.  I am considering getting a full time job and then freelancing my writing.  Maybe I'll get somewhere that way.  I'll figure it out at some point!

I'll just try to take it every day at a time.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 73

March 14

Today has been a nice relaxing day.  I helped out with some cleaning in the garage.  I played a game with Cathy.  We, also, just sat outside and enjoyed the sun and the relaxing environment.  I'm excited about the future and I know great things are ahead.  Talking with Cathy gave me a little more hope and her and Jim are being so welcoming about me being here.  I just can't wait to be able to have my munchkin back with me and taking her for walks and spending time with her.  I do miss my puppy.

But, everything will work out in the end.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 72

March 13

Today I felt very productive, which is a really nice feeling.  I put in more job applications.  I did more apartment searching and got some more ideas.  The boy isn't thrilled that I'm not finding much in the cities as he really wants a Minneapolis address, but I do continue to find other things he likes.  We also did some cleaning around the house, which included the dishes so the kitchen looks pretty again.  The cleaning made his mom happy, so I felt good about that.

I don't want to feel like a burden.  I want to be useful, but I don't want to get overly involved and mess up their rhythm.

Soon things will be working in my favor.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 71

March 12

Today gave me an opportunity to see what traveling for work is going to be like.  Right now I am living about an hour from where I want to be, so driving wasn't that bad.  I was in the car with other people, so when I'm driving to work I'll be alone with my music up.  So, not all around bad, but gives me a little motivation to be looking at apartments.

Keep your fingers crossed I get a job soon.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 70

March 11

The sun

Those who know me know that when winter rolls around, I lose interest in a lot of things.  I get less active and way less happier about things.  However, when spring finally arrives and the sun is out, radiating heat, I get very happy.  I love feeling the warmth on my skin and being outside.  So for those who don't believe seasonal depression is a thing, I am here to tell you it is.  I'm glad that thunderstorms are in the near future and bonfires with friends and family, cook outs and just fun.

I hope you're enjoying the warmth as well.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 69

March 10

The daunting task of taxes.  One reason why I made my way back to Manson.  I was worried when I went in.  I didn't know if I would get a refund or if I would be having to pay.  I knew I didn't have insurance for 11 months of the year and that would cost me.  Luckily, the wonderful people who did my taxes got me a refund and so I have a little extra money to get me started in an apartment once I find a job.  So, this girl is a happy camper.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 68

March 9

I took a trip back to Manson.  I had a few things I needed to get done and I thought now would be a good time instead of getting a job and then having to take time off to run errands.  So, I drove back and it was a beautiful day, which just made me happy.  I had the windows down, the music up, and I was just basking in the day that was created.  I'm excited spring has finally arrived.  More outdoors for me and more activity.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 67

March 8

The point of this has been to make myself find some sort of happiness in each and every day.  Some days I am able to find things or to create things that add a little more happiness into the world.  Other days are harder and I just look for something that made me happy or at least to take a second out of my life to smile.  This has been a task lately as I haven't found myself interacting with a number of people right now.  I've been spending my life staring at a computer screen filling out applications, waiting for the interactions.  I know when I get back out into the world, it'll hopefully be easier to find happiness or to create it.

I hope you are all taking the opportunity to create a little more happiness in this world.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 66

March 7

Today I went to this amazing sight, a frozen over waterfall.  There are giant icicles hanging and the opportunity to walk behind them and look out through slits that formed as the water froze over during the winter.  I, however, declined the opportunity to trek behind the wonder.  You may ask why?  There are a few reasons, but the main one on my radar is a medical issue.  I have back issues and looking at this frozen wonder I just kept thinking of slipping and falling and having to put my life on hold for six more months.  When that fear comes, it is an overpowering fear.  I begin to panic and it puts a dark cloud on the fun I was having or in this case the fun I wish I was having.  Before me was an adventure.  A chance to do something not within my normal behavior, but fear took over yet again.  I know the fear has its truth and it's something I deal with daily, but I just hope to be free of it someday.  The sight was amazing though and I'm glad I got to see it.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 65

March 6

Patience is a trait I have yet to master.  I am trying though.  I've only been here a week and I know it'll take a little time.  I just need to wait it out and to keep looking.  What I need will appear when I'm ready for it.  Just be free of worry for now.  (I'll just keep telling myself that and one day it'll be true I hope.)

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 64

March 5

Today continues the job hunt and the apartment hunt.  I keep finding options that I'm willing to take, but up until this point I keep getting nervous about not having one yet.  I know I haven't been here a week yet, but I'm ready to get back out there and have something to put my life back in order.  I love having this time off and I know once I get back to working I'm going to be wishing to be off.  The plus side though is I'll be getting paid again and then an apartment will be in my near future.

365 Days of Happiness - Day 63

March 4

Today I'm finding my happiness in the inspiration from another.

Living in Manson for the short time I did, I met some amazing people and today one is in my thoughts. This amazing, strong, independent woman has know a significant loss in your life, like many.  But, looking at her and seeing the way she has grown from this loss, it gives me hope that things will get better.  She had her loss at a much earlier age than I, so it would be easy to understand her anger and resentment about how things have happened.  She isn't though.  She is a happy and bubbly individual and she tries to make everyone else smile even when she doesn't want to herself.  I look at her and I am confident that she has an amazing future ahead of her.  I look at her and know that living my own life is not to be taken with regret or anger at the losses we've had.  Life is to be enjoyed and to remember those who watch over us each and every day.  Life isn't fair and we all have to live with it, but we need to appreciate what we have.  Appreciate the people that are destined to cross our paths.  Love the people who love us in return.

I know we are both being watched over and smiled upon.  Here's to her mom and here's to my dad:

You are missed daily and thought of often.  We hope to make you proud and wish you were here.  But, we'll see each other again and the stories we'll have to share.  Love you always and rest eternally in peace.

I'm so thankful to have met this amazing woman and hope to keep in touch as we both move onward in our own lives.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 62

March 3

Some days I consider just dropping social media, but then others I'm thankful to have it.  Because of Facebook, I found out about a car accident that is effecting my cousin and her family.  I don't have the closest relationship with my family for a number of reasons, but the main one is the distance.  This particular cousin lives on the east coast and we haven't spent much time together, but being able to show support from here makes me feel a little closer to her and her family.  I hope everyone recovers quickly and I hope my cousin knows I do think about her even if I don't tell her as often as I should.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 61

March 2

My boyfriend and I made dinner tonight.  He wanted to make risotto and I made a salad.  It was nice to be able to cook for his family and try to do something for them.  I don't want to be a nuisance for them.  They've done so much for me already, I just want some way to repay them.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 60

March 1

A new month and a new chapter in my life beginning.  I get to have a relaxing Sunday, curled up with my guy, watching TV, and just taking a break from life.  I haven't started stressing that much about not having a job, yet.  This experience is definitely different than the one in Oregon.  Though this time, I am better prepared and I have somewhere to stay while I continue to look.  I can take a chance to breathe.  I also don't have to worry about my munchkin.  Tink is spending some vacation time with grandma, which is good and sad.  I miss my puppy, but this is a better situation than living in a car.

Today I relax, tomorrow I begin the search again.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 59

February 28

I made it to my new temporary "home".  My boyfriend and his family have made my intrusion into their home amazing.  My first day here and it's a celebration.  We drank, we played games, we watched movies, and we had fun.  It's so nice to feel included and wanted in this new setting.  I appreciate their hospitality and I'm so grateful for it.  That still hasn't stopped me from hoping to get into my own place by the middle or end of the month at the latest.

I am such a lucky girl for all the amazing people in my life who wish nothing but good things for me.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 58

February 27

Today is my last day in Manson, Iowa.  Tomorrow I leave for Minnesota.  I'll be staying with my boyfriend and his family until I get an apartment and job situated.  I hope it'll be easier being an hour away from where I want to be, than four hours.

Anyways, today was just a day for mom and me.  We did some errands and just sort of hung out.  We both tried to make the most of it, because we know tomorrow is going to be difficult.  Leaving her is never easy these days.  I feel so guilty about leaving her alone.  I just wish she had someone there.  I wish my sister had more time to spend with her.  But with work, friends, and living her life, she doesn't spend a whole lot of time with my mom.  I was there for eight months and I saw her maybe a dozen times.

I've had to learn over the years, though, that I need to live my own life without feeling guilty about it, much like my sister.  I'm only 26 and I still have to find where I belong.  Constantly worrying about mom doesn't do either of us any good.

It's time for me to move on.  I know mom will always be there and I can always go back to visit, which will happen sooner rather than later.  I just hope she knows I'm always here for her.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 57

February 26

I received a wonderful surprise in the mail today.  Well, it wasn't necessarily a surprise, but there was a surprise included.

I commissioned my lovely friend, Cate, to paint a couple of pictures for me.  They were amazing when I saw them, which I had no doubt.  But, included was a painting of a tea cup.  It doesn't seem like much, but for us that represents many evenings we had together.  We would just sit around, drinking tea or coffee or hot cocoa, and just talking.  I miss those nights terribly, but hopefully soon we'll be able to set up coffee dates and Skype each other since I'm in Minnesota and she's in Texas.

Our friendship has been consistent since freshman year of college and even with us both pursuing our own paths, we have stayed connected.  I'm beyond thankful to have such an amazing friend in my life and someone who has so much talent.

Below are the pictures I commissioned.  I'll be hanging them on the wall when I get into the new apartment.

~Norma Jean

365 Days of Happiness - Day 56

February 25

Today's happiness?  My mom.

She has always been so strong and I'm thankful for everything she has done for me.  I haven't always appreciated her and what she has done for me, but I've gotten better about that.  At least i hope i have.  I try to let her know how much I love her and that I value her opinion.  I'm so thankful she gave me a safe place to land after I fell flat on my face.  I'm thankful she encourages me to get back on my feet even when it means I move away again. I'm thankful she has been my strength through some difficult times.  I'm just so thankful that she decided I was worth keeping.  I just hope I make her proud and continue to.  Saying goodbye to her is going to be tough, but I know she understands why.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 55

February 24

I had to say goodbye to my guy today. It was sad and emotional, as is every time I have to say goodbye, but the amazing silver lining this time is it won't be for long.  I luckily will be back with him by this weekend and I won't have to say goodbye again.

I'm a very lucky girl!!

I will try to stop being a giddy school girl about my guy, but I doubt it'll stick.  I've never been so happy and I'm glad I found my best friend. ♥

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 54

February 23

My sister brought over her turkey she got from work, so we sat down and had our last family turkey dinner until the holiday season rolls back around.  This also marked the last time in a while that we'll be together.  I leave this week and my sister has to work the rest of the week, so I may not see her again.  At least until I get settled and come back for my stuff.

Though we don't always agree and I want to strangle her sometimes, I do love her and I love my mom and I'm just thankful to be able to make this stop.  I landed and got back on my feet, but I'm ready to move on.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 52 & 53

February 21 and 22

I decided to combine these two days as I did the same thing both days.

I spent the weekend resting in bed as my mom, boyfriend, and I were all in various stages of unwell.   I'm thankful that I had medicine and time to rest.  There are people who don't have such a luxury and there are people who are battling illnesses far worse.  I'm just glad to be here, living my life right now.

I hope you are enjoying your life!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 51

February 20

Today I was told such wonderful and exciting news.

One of my best friends will be getting married to a pretty great guy.  He surprised her last night and today I received the excited phone call telling me how he proposed.
She deserves so much happiness in her life because she gives so much to those she meets.  I'm beyond blessed to have her in my life and I am beyond excited to see where life takes this amazing woman!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 50

February 19

I've been a bit selfish and superficial lately on here.  I need to be looking a bit deeper and taking to heart more joy and happiness each day.  There is more out there and I need to find it.  I've been taking a few things for granted.  I have a family, friends, a roof over my head, and I also have my health.  I do have issues with it, but compared to others it is just an inconvenience.

I've found out recently a friend of mine has been diagnosed with leukemia.   He is now going through more tests and will be on the road to recovery soon.  But he is to young for this.  He is to young to be on such a difficult road.  I forget sometimes, even though I should know better, nothing is set in life.  We all have things we fight through, but we have to be thankful for what we have.  I truly have so much to be thankful for.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 49

February 18

Oh the hangover!  What to be happy about?  Well, it has been such a long time since I've had a night out that I will say this time is well worth it.  I can't begin to express how thankful I was for all the love and kind words I received last night and all the people who came out for me.  It was amazing and I'm humbled.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 48

February 17

Tonight was my "Goodbye/Going away" party.  It was a great time.  Drinking, line dancing, and just hanging out with wonderful people made the night.  I was able to spend some actual time with them.  I had so many people who wanted to see me.  It made me feel good about how I've spent my time here.  I will miss them all, but I'm so grateful to have met everyone.

Tomorrow won't be as much fun, but such is the price we pay to drink.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 47

February 16

I started a new TV series that was recommended to me. What is it?  Penny Dreadful.  I'm not sure what to think, but I do enjoy getting recommendations.  People have such a wide range of tastes, it gives an insight into them.  Plus you never know if you're missing out on something fun.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 46

February 15

Since most of Valentine's day was spent apart, we decided to have our date night tonight.  We did a movie, dinner, movie, and ice cream.  I must say dinner and ice cream were my favorite parts.  We were able to just talk, which was nice.  Also, I didn't care much for the movies this time around.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 45

♥ February 14 ♥

Tonight was my last night at work.  Yeah, breaking hearts on Valentine's day.

It was nice to see the couples, the families, and the group of friends out.  Luckily, I didn't have to stay too late, which I was thankful for.  I was able to come home and spend the rest of the night with my guy.  This was our first Valentine's day actually being in the same place.  We didn't do much, just exchanged gifts and watched movies.  He truly has stolen my heart.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 44

February 13

Having my sister in the house has been different.  Unfortunately, it hasn't been for the best of reasons.  Though, we were able to get in a family game night, which was rather nice and incredibly entertaining.   We don't get much time for that kind of thing these days and with us again parting ways, it will be awhile before we get to again.

Enjoy family, whether blood or adopted by your own choosing.   You never know what can happen.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 43

February 12

Today I have not been feeling well and therefore I stayed in bed.  Having my sister's cat in the house has caused my allergies to kick my butt.  Hopefully, she'll be moving back into her own house soon and I can be back on my feet, feeling better.

Luckily, I was able to watch movies and cuddle with my guy.  That makes a sick day better.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 42

February 11

Again, I was able to watch the Kempo class work on their training with my guy leading them.  They have all been so welcoming as I sit in the back watching, learning.  It has been an experience seeing not only my boyfriend do something he enjoys, but seeing so many others.  I have enjoyed my time.  Luckily, I get to hang out a couple more times.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 41

February 10

Date night!!

I know these have been a happiness for me and you're probably growing tired of them, but I have spent so much of this relationship away from him, being able to be together and spend time together is just amazing.  Plus movies are fun!

I hope you've been able to get out and enjoy a few.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 40

February 9

My sister has been having some issues now that she has ended her relationship with her live in boyfriend.  Today I was able to spend some time helping her out.  Trying to get things back to normal for her.  Hopefully, I was able to take some of the weight of the world off of her shoulders, at least for a short while.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 39

February 8

This was my last Sunday working with my boys.  We have had so many great memories and I am eternally thankful to them.  I however will not dwell on the fact I am leaving.  I am going to remember the fun and today I had a guy give me a great compliment.

Margaritas are thought to be a "girly" drink, but I made one a man could be proud to drink today.  He said I could market them as "John Deer Margaritas".  I was glad I could make him something he enjoyed but I'm also glad that we could have a laugh.

Life is about finding the joy, no matter how small.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 38

February 7

Two more days of work after today.  That is it and I'll be done with this place.  Though, I'm sad to be leaving some amazing people, I have an amazing adventure ahead of me and that excites me.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 37

February 6

I went back to work today after five days off and I was met with a surprise.  I received a surprise from some of my regulars.  They made me cookies!  We talked about it a few weeks earlier, but I thought they forgot.  I didn't fault them. We are all busy and I really didn't think they cared that much.  However, I don't believe that anymore.  Somehow during my short stay here I am beginning to think maybe I have made an impact.  Maybe I really did need to come here not only for myself, because I needed to meet these people here but they needed to meet me.  It is something to know you impacted someone else's life.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 36

February 5

Each day brings me closer to the next chapter of my life and I continue to grow far more excited about the move.  Though I know there is so much to do, I just keep looking at the future.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 35

February 4

This blog has focused on the joys I see or experience, but today I was able to experience something new.  I was able to watch someone else do something they enjoy.

I had no idea what I was walking into when my boyfirend invited me to come and watch him teach.  I know he has put in many hours and a lot of effort over the years to be as skilled as he is in his art, but I've never had the opportunity to watch him.  Seeing him teaching others, he has a joy for Kempo.  He has a knack for explaining the stances and the forms.  Hopefully, as we continue to discuss our future together, he'll consider making a move into teaching and into his own studies.

I wish I had such a passion, but alas I have yet to discover such a thing.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 34

February 3

I'm not having much joy or happiness today.  Though, I know tomorrow will find me in a better mood and better able to handle the disappointments that come.  Today holds no such truth.

I hope you are doing far better than I.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 33

February 2

Looking for the small joys in life is what this has been about and for me one of those small joys is being in the kitchen.  I find a joy and a peace when it comes to being able to cook or bake and tonight I got to share that.
For those who know me, running to the kitchen and getting lost in a recipe has been an escape from some of the harder things in my life.  I use it to find my way out of the stress of life or the pain that comes.  Tonight however was something different.  Tonight is was a passion I was able to share with someone I love.  It is a part of me and something I wanted to share.

I hope there are joys and passions you can share as well!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 32

February 1

I woke up and luckily didn't have to go to work, so I spent the day enjoying a wonderful snow day.  I curled up on the couch with a cup of hot chocolate and watched movies with my boyfriend.  We were able to just watch the snow fall outside, covering the earth with a blanket of white.  Most days if I would have been forced out into it, I would have been angry and upset about the cold and the snow.  But, today just getting to enjoy it was amazing.  It was a nice, relaxing day and much needed.  I hope you have been able to enjoy a few snow days of your own.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 31

January 31

Today I get to celebrate one year with my amazing boyfriend.  We've met over a year ago, but we chose today to celebrate because it has special meaning to us both.  I'm thankful I got to spend it with him.  We did the traditional dinner and movie, but it was still such a wonderful time.

To many this is nothing.  However, to us this is what we've been waiting for.  Spending the entirety of our relationship doing long distance, being together is amazing.

Here's to many more years ahead!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 30

January 30

As each day grows closer to the end of my time in Manson, Iowa, I continue to find myself grateful and blessed by the people I work with and the customers I see regularly.   When I first began working at Shore Side, I told myself I wasn't going to get attached.  This was only going to be temporary and why cause myself the pain of saying goodbye.  Well, so much for that.  These people gave me something to look forward to, even on days when I didn't want to be at work.  I will miss everyone, but luckily I don't have to say goodbye just yet.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 29

January 29

Today has a lot of happy and some sad.

First off, today is one of my best friend's birthday.   Though he's on the other side of the world, he'll always be a part of my life.  So many great memories.  I haven't seen him in forever, but someday!

Second, I dropped more weight.  Happy, happy day.  I've been to the gym and watching my calorie intake and it's starting to show.  This is a daily battle and knowing I'm making progress helps make all the difficult choices easier.

Third, the day had it's first goodbye.  My last wing night.  I remember starting and being nervous and running my butt off, but now it doesn't seem so bad.  I've enjoyed having so many people come in to see me and working with this particular group of people.   I'll miss it, but time to move on.

Until tomorrow!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 28

January 28

Hello gym!

I've been told before that once exercising becomes a routine, you don't feel right about skipping out.  That has become true for me.  Getting to the gym has become routine and I'm really starting to feel better about myself.  My confidence is building; my clothes are fitting better.  Yay for self improvement!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 27

January 27

Tonight was the first night of line dancing at work.  It's just something new to try to bring in a crowd.  I have to say it worked pretty well.  We had about 35 people show up and they stayed to drink.  I had to bartend, but it was a great night.  Not only did all these people have a great night dancing, but their energy was contagious.  I was laughing and dancing behind the bar.  I also got to spend time with some amazing friends.  During the night the girls and I planned a little going away party which has turned into something bigger but should still be a lot of fun.  I'm excited and a little sad about leaving them.  They have become a part of my life and I'm so thankful.   I'll let you know how the party goes.  We still have a few weeks.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 26

January 26

I haven't been on my game lately.  So, I'm will find something to smile about or laugh about or something that warms my heart.   That's again why I've created this.  I need it to help me and to focus me.  I've had some bad days, but I knew that would happen.  Change takes time and as long as I keep it up, I'll be okay.

So, now for today's little bit of happy.  I came home from work and my mom and I sat down and watched the Bachelor.  There was a line that was just hilarious and we just had a laughing fit.

So, during one of the one on one dates,  Chris was doing an interview and he was talking about how he couldn't focus so he was just thinking about "unicorns and dancing fairies".  It was the funniest thing that I had heard all night.  I needed it.

I know it isn't something wonderful, but at least I had a smile on my face for a while.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 24 and 25

January 24 and 25

I've tried to figure out what to talk about here, but you know it has been dark in my world.  I haven't been able to find my happiness.   I was hoping it would only last a day, but I'm not thinking that will be the case.   I have to change my thinking.  I have to get myself back to my focus.  I want to be happy.

365 Days of Happiness - Day 23

January 23

Christmas has finally come to an end for me.  I was able to get the two remaining packages in the mail Wednesday and they both arrived today.  Both recipient households enjoyed the surprise.  I received texts, pictures, and a phone call after I got off work.  I miss my friends, whom I have left as I continue to discover my path in life, but the great thing is, these people will always be there for me no matter how far apart we are.

Lindsay and Elizabeth have been there for me through good and bad and with them, they have brought a few amazing guys into my life as well.  I am eternally grateful and blessed for their love, support, and friendship for so many years and many more to come.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 22

January 22

Thank you to those of you who looked over my cover letter.  Fingers crossed it can land me a great job.

But, that's not why were here.  Each day grows closer to my next adventure and I'm beginning to realize that this stop in my journey was needed.  Not only has it given me some much needed time with my mom, time to recover and realize where I want to be, but it has brought me some amazing friends.

When I began my jobs here in Manson, I was planning to fly under the radar and not to get attached.  I told my boyfriend I had expected to just fade out of the picture with no real recognition I had ever been present.  He asked why and I stated that wasn't the plan.  I'm not that important, anyways.  I couldn't have made much of a difference to anyone here.

I don't think that's going to happen though.  Somehow I've seem to have made an impact and that's a pretty good feeling.  I cannot express how grateful I am to my coworkers and for the people I've met.  It will be extremely tough to walk away.  But, I'm going to have amazing memories to look back on.

~Norma Jean ♡

Cover Letter Take 1

I'm taking a little detour, requesting help to make sure my cover letter sounds good.

Here it is...

To Whom It May Concern:

My name is Norma Dunning and I am applying for the position, ____________.  I believe I would be a great addition to your team,  I graduated from Kansas State University with a BA in Journalism, Mass Communication.  During that time and after, I was a staff writer for the college newspaper, I had my own radio show for the college radio station, and I was working as a news reporter and anchor for a local radio station in Manhattan, Kansas.

While there I had the chance to build relationships not only with my coworkers, but with legislators, county and city officials, the local school board, members of the military stationed at Fort Riley, Kansas, among others.  I covered numerous events and took pride in all the stories I created.

Though, I have taken some time away from that world, I am eager to get back in the game.  I am a quick learner and would greatly appreciate the opportunity to be a part of your team.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Norma Dunning

620-255-4187

365 Days of Happiness - Day 21

January 21

So there are a few things that made my day.  There are also a few things that got me down. It was really a bit of a roller coaster ride today.

Who wants me to tell you why?  No.  Well, tough.  This is my blog and I'll do as I wish.

Anyways, I woke up to take my mom to the doctor and we sat there for almost two hours.  I wasn't feeling so well.  But, that's nothing new for me.  We came home took a nap, then i made a few phone calls.  I was checking about setting up interviews. Yes interviews.  I got another call from a second company.  Since i couldn't get up there tomorrow, I have to wait and see if they continue interviews into next week.  The other job fell through.  That's okay though.  I wasn't meant to have that one.

So, then my mom and i headed to town.  I got the last two Christmas gifts sent off to my friends.  *Happy dance*  We got the shopping done, went to dinner, and came home.  I got a late Christmas present, which was the sixth season of Castle.  *Another happy dance*.  Once unloaded, I got on my computer and applied for more jobs.  I found one that I absolutely want.  Fingers crossed that I get it.  I sent an email and tomorrow I'm going to see about putting my portfolio together and send it off.

I know this job could be an amazing opportunity and I hope they can see I will be a beneficial team member.  So, I've been working on a cover letter.  If you wouldn't mind taking time to read it when I post it tomorrow and give critiques.   Thanks in advance!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 20

January 20

Today was a pretty good day.  It has been the first time in a while that I wasn't completely stressed about life and all that it entails.  I got a phone call about a job and the possibility of an interview.  Work went great.  A little slow, but we have a new girl being trained and she was doing really well.  I can't complain.  I also can't narrow down just one thing to talk specifically about.  I do believe everything is going to turn out as it should be.

I hope you are finding a little bit of happiness in your day and don't hesitate to share if you have something happy in your life.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 19

January 19

I got a lot accomplished today.  I went to the gym, work, helped my mom, paid bills, worked on my resume, filled out more job applications, and briefly looked at apartments.  I like feeling that I made a dent in my to do list.  I just hope that soon I won't be having to fill out applications and that I'll have a job.

Here's to the future!!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 18

January 18

With the loss of a vital part of my family four years ago, I have grown to appreciate the times I get to spend with my mom and my sister.  Today, they surprised me when I got off work.  We went out to dinner and spent some time together.  Though, we drive each other crazy and make each other mad, we do love each other.  I have to remind myself sometimes though to tell them that.  You never know when you could lose someone important to you.  You can't take any moment for granted.

Just a little piece of advice as you continue in your own life.  Stay happy!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 17

January 17

Looking back on how my life has changed over the last few years, I'm glad I'm around to go through it, even though I didn't have the best day.

To be honest, three years ago at this point, I was either sleeping through my weekends, blacking out through my weekends, or drinking through my weekends.  I was in a downward spiral hoping it would all just end.  I look back and I'm grateful for getting myself pulled together to be here now.

I have so many things to be happy for.  Today I heard from a high school friend and it just lightened my mood.

During the Christmas season, I enjoy sending out Christmas cards. I was asked why and this is the reason.  It gives me a chance to catch up with those friends who I don't always talk to every day.  This high school friend has been traveling and busy with his own life.  It was great to hear from him and to catch up.

I enjoy hearing from my friends!  I'm truly grateful for those amazing people in my life!!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 16

January 16

Well, as I continue on this road, I have received support and encouragement in my decisions and also with this blog.   I am so grateful to those of you taking time out of your day to read this.  It truly means a lot to me.

Thank you!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 15

January 15

Do you ever have those moments that just make your heart happy?   That's what my happy moment is for the day.  I had nothing to do with the situation, but because of the energy radiating from those involved, it made me smile.

Now let me explain and see if I can convey the sense of excitement...

This young girl came into the restaurant and she wanted to surprise our boss, who doesn't usually come in on Thursday.  I unfortunately had to tell her that.  The look of disappointment was heartbreaking.  She asked me to promise I would tell him she had come in to see him.  I did and I went back to work.

A short time later, to the surprise of us all, our boss he came in to do a little inventory. He was told this girl had come in to surprise him and so he came out to see her.  I have no idea the relationship between the two,  but seeing the smile on her face and seeing the joy in getting to connect with someone important to her, it just made me happy.

I hope you have found some happiness too!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 14

January 14

With snow comes the possibility of getting stuck.  I've had it happen to me and I know how it feels to be stranded for a while.

Today as I was heading into town, I saw the teamwork of some guys trying to get a car out of the snow.  It just made me feel good to see it.  Luckily, no injuries occurred.

It was good to see some good in the world!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 13

January 13

Today I took control of my life and I'm going after what I want.  I want to head off on my next adventure and I'm going after it.  In about a month and a half, I'll be making my move to a new state and to a life with my boyfriend.  I'm still working on the career and basically everything.  But, I know I'm going to do this and I'm going to be okay!  As I've said before, I'm stronger than I have been and I can do anything.

Just wait and see what new and amazing things await!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 12

January 12

So after running errands today, going to work, gym, dinner, being able to just sit and relax is pretty nice.

Curled up with a blanket, hot chocolate, and my puppy watching "Castle" is the best way in my opinion.  This type of thing makes me happy and I'm good with it.  This is my happiness for the day!!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 11

January 11

Throughout college, networking was always encouraged.  So I was working with fate to make some connections.

Looking at the near future, I'll be making my move to Minnesota and I met some nice people who live in the Twin Cities.  The lady was trying to get me hooked up with her son, but changed her tune when I said I was moving with my boyfriend.  She did say she'd see if she had anyone who could help me find a job.

I left work with some contact info and I left mine behind.  Here's hoping something works out in my favor!

Yay for networking!!  Here's hoping I find a job I like!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 10

January 10

Christmas is over, but I still have two packages left that I need to get sent off.  But, before I can send them off I need to finish a couple of things.  So I took some time today to work on them.  Here's hoping Wednesday I can get them in the mail.  Then, hopefully the girls will like them!!

That's my happiness looking back on the fun with these girls.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 9

January 9th!

So, I'm not going to dwell on the bad as tears found me when I woke and tears followed me to work.  That's not what I want to focus on.  The good, the happy that's what this is for.

So, at work this amazing couple was so gracious I felt the need to pay them back in some way, so out of my own pocket I paid $25 of their $40 bill.  Now let me tell you why.

This couple came in for dinner and ended up having to sit at the bar because all of the tables were full.  One opened up and I asked if they would like to sit there.  Well, another table decided they wanted it instead so they moved over.  This couple asked then if they could take the other table.  I said absolutely.   About 30 minutes later, a table of eight came in looking for a table.  Again we were still full at our big tables and the majority of the booths.  This couple was sitting at a big table so I asked if they wouldn't mind moving.  They graciously did for the group of 8.  They were able to finish their meal in peace.  When they left, they came up and asked about their bill.  I told then I appreciated the way they were so gracious about everything and I wanted to say thank you!!!

That's what the world needs more of!!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 8

January 8th!

As you've probably noticed, I've been using past tense over the last 7 day blog posts.  The thing is that I'm playing catch up.  I've been working on the blog since January 1st, but I just haven't gotten on here to post them.  So each day I try to get a few done so I can finally do one per day.  Both for your sanity and for my own.

So because of that, I have been able to take some time and work through the issues since the 8th.  So, life is not so bad as it was.

Things at work have been difficult and things in my long distance relationship hit a rough spot too.  I hadn't realized that my stress and uncertainty were taking a negative toll on my relationship.  So by the end of the day nothing good could have countered it.  It was rough and again the reason this is important to me.  I need to not let the darkness encircle my life again.  For too long that's where I was and I'm not looking to be back there.

So we'll just skip the 8th and continue on to the next on.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 7

January 7th!

You know the great things about little kids?  They find joy in about anything.  I got to spend an hour babysitting my boss's son while he finished up some inventory stuff at work.

This little boy was able to have me smiling and giggling for the rest of the night.  We sat down and colored, we ran around, we rolled a ball back and forth, we just had fun and I needed that.  I needed some spark of happiness as the days haven't brought me much lately.  So, again the reason for this blog, I want to find the joy each day brings.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 6

January 6th!!

As I've previously mentioned, I've used the blog to try and help with my weight loss without much success.  But, that's okay.  I can make progress without it.  Which is my happiness for today.

I stepped on the scale this morning, which is usually a Monday morning ritual.  But I wanted to wait an extra day to see how my New Year's resolution was going so far.  To my surprise I have lost 5 pounds.  Yay!!

Having issues with my weight my entire life, this is a daily battle and a life long journey. Some days are better than others.  Luckily, I keep going along to make my life better.  Having at one point in my life been 220 pounds, I know how it feels to not like yourself and to not feel very well either.  So having been at my ideal weight of 150 and slowly gaining it back, I want to get back to feeling good about myself and also to ward off future health issues.  Having back issues, I know this is something I need to do for me.

So at 179, I still have work to do!!!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 5

January 5th

My happiness of the day was what got me through work and some other errands.  It was my reward!  Now what was my happiness of the day then?

Well, I got to catch up with one of my best friends.  It has been months since we've talked and luckily with all the holiday plans coming to a close we both were able to take almost two hours out of our lives to talk.

Cate has been a part of my life since freshman year of college.  As we both have moved on in our own directions, these phone calls are all we have right now.  She lives in Texas and I'm planning to move to Minnesota, so until we can save up for vacations to see each other, phone calls are it.

We were able to catch up on our jobs, our families, the boys who have stolen our hearts, and some upcoming events.  It's always nice to be able to talk to someone who understands you and who has been there through good and bad.

So that's my happiness!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 4

January 4th

As my day came to an end, I had no idea what to talk about.  I hadn't caught a glimpse of my happiness.  That is until I curled up in bed and pulled out a book.  My boyfriend's mom gave me it when I went to visit about a month and a half ago.  I had started it, but hadn't made much progress.  Life just kept me busy over the holidays and so I pushed it aside.

So, my happiness is getting to embark on a new journey in "The Outlander".  I opened the book and started to read it again.  This time I'm going to make time for it.

I'm enjoying it thus far.  So, you may get a short synopsis in the coming weeks as I move further into the story!

I hope you're finding your own happiness!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 3

January 3!

Being a waitress isn't the most glamorous job.  Trust me there are people that believe that a waitress is dirt beneath their feet and sometimes even our bosses don't think we are worth much either. Luckily, I was given a great compliment, which is the happy thought for the day.

Not only did I have my regular section for the night, but I had a birthday party to cover as well.  I thought it was going to be a difficult night, but it was actually really fun.  The party was for a young girl's 16th birthday.  One of the party goers showed up a bit early.  He was suppose to help decorate.  Well, I got him a drink and let him sit down until the others showed up.  Then throughout the night, I got drinks for everyone and their dinner.  It went really smooth.

Before he left, the same guy I spent time with before the party came up to me and thanked me for the amazing job I did.  He was impressed with the care I gave without being over bearing.  Having someone acknowledge the work I did made me feel good.

My employers don't always let us know those types of things.  Mostly they focus on our short comings, so it was a good night for me.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 2

January 2nd!

The new year is off to a pretty good start.  With each day, there is hope for a bright future ahead and I know this year will bring not only great things for my friends, but for me as well.  This year will be the year that brings my boyfriend and I together.  Having spent our entire relationship thus far in two different states, this year will change that.

If you haven't guessed, my happy thought for today is my amazing boyfriend.  When things aren't going the best, he is always there for me.  He makes me happy and I can't wait for our future together.  It helps that he takes the time to tell me he can't wait for the same.

So, hopefully, here in a couple of months you'll be hearing about the next adventure ahead of me in a new place, with new friends, and a new amazing job.

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Day 1

January 1st is a day to begin new.  It's a day for change and a day to begin on a fresh slate. For me, it'll be the first day of my project.  While many were recovering from hangovers and resting from the festivities the day before, I was driving away from my boyfriend and heading back to work.  Both not how I wanted to start this new year.  So, let me find my happy for the day.

Though, I didn't want to head back to work that day, that's where I found it.  Walking in the door after four days off, it was good to see the friends I have made.  Getting this particular job was just that a job.  Something I was just going to do for a few months and then I would be off on my next adventure.  Working on my eighth month there, I have grown attached to my coworkers and having them say they missed me made being back a little more bearable.  We drive each other crazy and we get mad at each other, but we do care about each other to a degree.  So I'll be leaving them soon enough, but for now they make work a little better.

Happiness is a choice.  One that I have made!

~Norma Jean ♡

365 Days of Happiness - Introduction

A new year is upon us and I want, no need, to do something important to me.  There is so much hate and unhappiness in the world right now that I have a goal of trying to find something good each day.  Cue the revival of this blog.

Throughout the years this blog has been used primarily for school.  Being a journalist major it was always emphasized to create one and to use it to find something you're passionate about. After college, I had a tough time finding a focus.  Looking back through my posts, it became a weight loss journal that didn't last and then I tried to use it to help me get through some difficult times.  But, when you aren't ready to admit to yourself how you really feel and why, it doesn't help to try to bring the world in on it.  But now, I'm ready to start something special.

This year I have a focus.  I have a goal and I hope that not only will this help me change my way of thinking, but can somehow help someone else.  Luckily, I was able to get away for the new year and that gave me a chance to recharge.  I realized I was taking on too much doubt, hatred, unhappiness in my life and where I am right now.  I kept just looking at the future wondering why the things I want aren't happening.  I forgot to enjoy where I am right now.  So, now it's time to change.  I'm going to enjoy myself.  I'm not going to let my job get to me.  I'm not going to take on anything extra that I don't want.  Most importantly, I'm going to say no and do the things I want to do, not what everyone else wants me to do.  This is my life and I want to be happy.  So, let's all try to be better to ourselves and find a little happiness everyday!


~Norma Jean ♡